Do you ever ponder the lack of communication between you and your husband?

And why does he always seem so agitated?

It might be a result of a sexless union.

What is a sexless union, exactly? When you don’t have sex with your spouse, that’s when.

Although your husband generally doesn’t want you to act out scenes from the Fifty Shades of Grey movie with whips and chains, he does want sex.

Sex can communicate a variety of messages to your husband.

One message it can say is: “Yes, I love you.”

Or the lack of sex can say, “Get out of my face because I’m just over you now.”

Sex is also a means of communication.

But when you refuse sex you’re telling your husband, “You are not worth my time… “

You also break off the physical, emotional, and spiritual connection you should have with your husband by consistently refusing to have sex.

Therefore, a sexless union could make your husband resentful.

To make things worse, we offer all types of excuses for not having sex such as:

• “I don’t feel well.”

• “I’m frustrated.”

• “I’m tired.”

• “Busy day tomorrow.”

• “I’m on my period… “

These are all acceptable justifications for refraining from having sex. But if you keep coming up with these types of justifications, your husband will start to think that sex isn’t as important to you as it once was.

And as a result, he might feel abandoned and look for approval elsewhere.

Your marriage becomes sexless when you refuse to engage in sexual activity with your husband. Even though we have good reasons for declining sex, refusing repeatedly might encourage our husbands to look for approval elsewhere.

Do your part to prevent a sexless marriage if you want to keep your marriage exciting, make your husband happy, and make him less irritable.

Just say yes when he asks you out on a date! and then do it!